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Saturday Thoughts

"Don't fear your weakness....be afraid of those moments when you think you're independently strong." The caption of my morning devotional from Paul David Tripp, New Morning Mercies.

Personal confession, I absolutely loath, despise, hate, cringe, die on the inside, when asked a question I don't have an answer to. It makes me feel weak and incompetent. Please don't roll your eyes. This is a confession and a judgment free zone. You feel?

The author goes on to list all the things that can make us feel weak, and I identified with almost everything on the list. But oddly enough, I found comfort in the fact that everyone has something, that one thing, that fleshes our own personal vulnerability or weakness. 

Feeling or actually being weak isn't a problem. That's normal for everyone. It's more about being self aware and proactively processing the felling or situation.

Three take aways... and yes, they are free today.

  1. I'm not the only one. Could say more on that, but I feel strongly that calling it out is important. It removes focus from self.
  2. Because I'm not the only one, I should encourage someone around me. Who knows what someone else is going through?
  3. Read Psalm 27.

By the way, what is it about the stillness of a Saturday morning? Well, it's really not the stillness of morning. The morning is the same every day. I reckon it's the stillness of self. Regardless, it's magic is not lost on me this morning.

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